I would suggest looking up, on-line, or purchasing, an FAA aviation sectional chart for your area. Then, learn about the VHF radio frequencies printed for each airport within your area of interest, including tower and UNICOM frequencies. If listening to commercial airline traffic on VHF is your main interest, go online and find the frequencies used for the larger centers, Atlanta, Washington, for example, controlling aircraft on specific routes between major airports. Each route sector will have specific frequencies.
On VHF, even with simple equipment, you'll hear plenty of aircraft but unless you are very close to a ground station, you won't hear who the aircraft is talking to!
Now, if you have an HF-SSB receiver, you can find lots of interesting listening on frequencies in the assigned 3, 6, 8 and higher mHz aircraft bands used by major centers, like New York or Shannon Ireland, controlling overseas flights. On HF, the frequencies will change depending on the time of day, but both aircraft and ground stations, out to thousands of miles, are easy to hear with simple antennas. Listening to radio traffic and actually watching the live "Flight Aware" display of the aircraft's path is always very interesting, too!