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(I had to move my rebuttal from the other open'd site on this subject--- after I wrote it all out, and everything... Kevin, You closed it !...
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Well, MTS, I am going respectful disagree to many of your comments.
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What I wrote was painted with a broad brush of sarcasm and by nature I tend to get facetious. I'll will not concede any sympathy for your friend, however. At 19 he was a man, and what he did- killing a family is something he must bear the judgement of society for the rest of his life. You and others may forgiven him over time, but can't. Yes, its a terrible he has to bear it, but he is still alive--- his victims can't bear *Anything.*
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In my life I have run across such people who have made grave errors in judgement. I do not, and will not- include anyone of them in my circle of friends, family or associates. And you are correct- I have never committed a felony- at least knowingly-- the only traffic ticket I have ever received is one for making a 'right turn on red' in a city that didn't allow them. My FICO score is 826.
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Because I live like this, I hold one of the highest security clearances in the land- I can walk into (practically) any government facility unquestion'd- I have passed so many background investigations that it boggles my mind to what depth my life has been- and continues to be look'd into.
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I am not bragging- I am just making my point that if you screw up, there are somethings that can't be undone. You may be forgiven my many, but some people, who play by, and set the rules, get pretty tick'd off when their values get rubb'd in their noses, and innocent people suffer. If, as in my case, you want to move in certain circles, you had better prepare for it early, early on.
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One of the most powerful life lessons I every learned was as a teenager. A simple lecture by my father (a decorated Vietnam aviator, and now a retired Air Force colonel)--
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"Lauri, if you ever mess up, I will not bail you out"
"You want respect? to pursue your dreams?... don't mess up!"
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I thank him to this day for that 'tuff love.'
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I had to take a couple course in law for what I do.... very eye opening stuff. I thought I would be bored- I was anything but. One thing that sticks saliently with me was that as Americans, we have a Constitutional Right to disobey any law we think violates our rights-- BUT we must be prepared to accept the consequences ! If for some Crazy As*'d reason I decide to start blowing dope, I accept the responsibity that my life will instantly be screw'd. But its not society's fault that the laws are 'unfair'-- that's just how it is (a bad analogy since my home is in Colorado- but its still federally illegal and don't even think what that would do to my clearances.) If there's a law you don't like, work to change it- disobey it at your peril.
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Okay, enuff of this- it has only broad applications to the original 605 Form topic. And anyone thinking I'm a prude? -- Hardly. Just re-read what I wrote originally this time thru the lens of sarcasm
Now, go have a drink, but have your designated driver (I do)--- and a Happy New Year!
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