i've never had one of those break off on me, even bending them down to make better contact. I wonder if it was just a bad or out of the box defect.
Personally, i prefer larsen and their conductors, over the spring loaded pins. I've had a few cases where the pin had enough corrosion that it was no longer springy and only made contact with certain mounts.
Back to the core of this thread.
OP, i feel your pain. SWR adjustment on 27mhz is somewhere in the spectrum of luck and voodoo. Whomever said REFLECTION has a lot to do with it is absolutely correct. Adjusting SWR on my truck's CB, which has a front fender mount NMO drives me to drink. It can be close to optimal, and then i do something like close the door and its completely off